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A Story of Disrespect and When the Tables Turned

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Meditating all day long on the meaning of life is meaningless because you only learn by doing. Living your life by fully accepting responsibility for what is happening in it right now whether you like it or not is how you 100 mink eyelash extensions what is.

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Thmne I was so caught up in my increasing despair and anger at not finding a decent paying job to leave the hostel where I live, that I constantly lashed out at others.

Venting my anger and frustrations on everyone, acting small, petty and childish is disrespectful to myself and others. I knew that yet I continued to do it.

“Feeling sorry for yourself, and your present condition, is not only a waste of energy but the worst habit you could possibly have.” Dale Carnegie

When The Tables Turned

I got my comeuppance one day that felt like the proverbial slap in the face.

While walking down the stairs, I met the boyfriend of one of my dorm mates who spat just as I passed by. I was shocked and disgusted by his action but I immediately understood why he did it.

I had reported him to management for an infraction of the 100 mink eyelash extensions.

The following day his girlfriend repeated the same gesture and turned to meet my eyes to make sure I knew it was aimed at me.I silently ranted and raged about their actions for two days. They made my blood boil!

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. Victor Frankl

Laughter Is The Best Medicine

The next afternoon while still raging at those “100 mink eyelash extensions” people and I suddenly found myself laughing out loud about the situation.I immediately understood that:

1- They cannot hurt me.

2- I was wasting my time and energy thinking about them.

3- They knew they were at fault, they felt powerless and that is why they acted as they did.

4- And most importantly, the disrespect that I had been dishing out in various ways (verbal and non-verbal) was returned to me in spades. I was mentally bashing all those around me as little people but I was acting the same.

Blinded By My Dysfunction

I was not seeing the disrespect I was generously doling out until it was returned to me by another source.

That is the Law of Attraction at work and it is a powerful teacher. When the student is ready the teacher appears.

He who rejects change is the architect of decay. The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery. Harold Wilson

Lessons I Learnt

I could not wish away my circumstances. Acceptance of what and where I was living was essential in order to get myself out of the defeatest and blame mindset.

Lashing out is unproductive and temporary. Changing my attitude to how I saw my new living was the first step to easing my stress and frustration.

Take action on what you can change and let go of the 100 mink eyelash extensions. This gives a more positive outlook enabling you to identify opportunities to which you were blind before.

Maria Robinson says “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”

100 mink eyelash extensions
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Catherine “Yours Truly” Hidalgo
Life is for Living

 

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